Uma kukhulunywa ngokuhlangana komndeni, sonke siyazi ukuthi zibaluleke kangakanani lezo zikhathi zokuxhumana. Nokho, izikhathi ezimatasa nezithikamezo zansuku zonke zivame ukusihlukanisa. Ngiye lapho, umsebenzi we-juggling, isikole, kanye nentaba yemisebenzi. Kungase kube sengathi sonke sihlala endlini eyodwa kodwa kumaplanethi ahlukene. Cabanga ngalokhu: uphumela ngaphandle ngemva kosuku olude, futhi nansi - ubhavu wakho oshisayo, ubhavuza ngendlela ekhangayo. Akukona nje ukunethezeka; iyithuluzi lokuxhumana. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi u-80% wabanikazi bamabhavu ashisayo bazizwa bexhumene kakhulu nemindeni yabo. Kungani? Ngoba kwakha isikhala lapho wonke umuntu engakhululeka khona futhi ahlanganyele ezingxoxweni ezizuzisayo. Asihlephule. Nansi indlela ubhavu oshisayo ongashintsha ngayo izinto zomndeni wakho: 1. Isikhathi Sekhwalithi: Ukuyenga kwamanzi afudumele kudonsa wonke umuntu. Azikho izikrini, azikho iziphazamiso. Wena kanye nabathandekayo bakho, nabelana ngezindaba kanye nokuhleka. 2. Ukuphumula: Ngemva kosuku olumatasatasa, amajethi apholile ancibilikisa ingcindezi. Uma sikhululekile, sivuleka kakhudlwana futhi sizimisele ukuxhuma. 3. Okuhlangenwe nakho Okuhlanganyelwe: Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi igeyimu ejabulisayo, ingxoxo ejulile, noma ukuvele nijabulele izinkanyezi ndawonye, lezi zikhathi ziba izinkumbulo eziyigugu. 4. Ukwakha Okujwayelekile: Ukukwenza isiko lamasonto onke kungaqinisa izibopho. Khetha ubusuku bebhavu obushisayo bomndeni. Yinto wonke umuntu angayilangazelela. 5. Ukuxhumana Okukhuthazayo: Isimo esikhululekile sikhuthaza wonke umuntu ukuba abelane ngemicabango nemizwa yakhe ngokukhululekile. Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, ngibonile ukuthi i-soak elula ingashintsha kanjani ibe iseshini yokwelapha yomndeni, lapho sixoxa ngakho konke kusukela ezinselele zesikole kuya kumaphupho esikhathi esizayo. Konke mayelana nokudala leso sikhala sengxoxo. Sengiphetha, uma ufuna ukuthuthukisa uxhumo lomndeni wakho, cabanga ukutshala kubhavu oshisayo. Kungaphezu nje kokuthenga; yithuba lokukhulisa ubudlelwano obujulile nokudala izinkumbulo ezihlala njalo. Ngakho-ke, kungani ungagxumi? Umndeni wakho uzokubonga!
Cabanga ngalokhu: kusihlwa okubandayo, izinkanyezi ezibenyezela phezulu, nomsindo opholileyo wamanzi agelezayo eduze kwakho. Ngicishe ngizwe uhleko lwezithandwa lunanela emoyeni. Uma unjengami, uyazi ukuthi ukuphila kungaba matasa, futhi ukuthola isikhathi esiseqophelweni eliphezulu nomndeni nabangane kuvame ukungena emifantwini. Kodwa kuthiwani uma ngikutshela ukuthi kukhona indlela yokudala izinkumbulo ezihlala njalo kalula? Masingene emhlabeni wamabhavu ashisayo. Lawa mabhamuza omlingo awawona nje awokuphumula; bayisango lokuxhuma. Zicabange ucwila emanzini afudumele ngemva kosuku olude, uzungezwe abantu obathandayo. Akukhona nje ukucwiliswa; kuyinto ehlanganisa wonke umuntu. Ngakho-ke, usisebenzisa kanjani ngokugcwele isikhathi sakho sobhavu oshisayo? Nazi izinyathelo ezimbalwa zokuqinisekisa ukuthi umzuzu ngamunye ubalulekile: 1. Setha Isigcawu: Ukukhanyisa kuyizinto zonke. Izibani ezithambile, ezizungezile zingashintsha igceke lakho libe indawo ethokomele. Engeza amakhandlela athile noma izibani zezintambo kulokho kuthinta okwengeziwe komlingo. 2. Letha Ubumnandi: Hlela imidlalo ethile noma imisebenzi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umdlalo wamakhadi wakudala noma imibuzo ye-trivia ejabulisayo, ukubandakanya wonke umuntu kugcina amandla ephila. 3. I-Snack Attack: Ubani ongathandi ukudla okulula? Lungiselela ukudla okulula ukukudla. Cabanga ngokudla kweminwe, izithelo, noma ngisho nesitsha sikashizi. Konke kumayelana nokugcina i-vibe ikhululekile futhi ijabulisa. 4. Izindaba Zomculo: Dala uhlu lwadlalwayo oluthandwa yiwo wonke umuntu. Ingxube enhle yamashuni ingakhuphula umoya futhi idale iculo lezinkumbulo zakho. 5. Thwebula Izikhathi: Ungakhohlwa ukuthatha izithombe! Lezo zithombe ezicacile zokuhleka nenjabulo zizokwaziswa iminyaka eminingi ezayo. Manje, ake sicabange ukuthi kungani lokhu kubalulekile. Ezimpilweni zethu ezisheshayo, kulula ukukhohlwa ukubaluleka kokuxhumana. Ubhavu oshisayo unikeza ukuphunyuka okuphelele, ithuba lokukhululeka kanye nesibopho. Akukhona nje ngamanzi; imayelana nokuhleka, izindaba ezabiwe, nezinkumbulo ezidaliwe. Ngakho-ke, ngokuzayo lapho ufuna indlela yokuchitha isikhathi nabantu obathandayo, cabangela ubumnandi obulula bebhavu elishisayo. Kungaphezu nje kokunethezeka; iresiphi yezikhathi ongenakulibaleka. Vumela amabhamuza enze umlingo wawo futhi ubuke njengoba ukuxhumana kujula futhi uhleko lugcwala umoya.
Ezweni lanamuhla elisheshayo, isikhathi somkhaya ngokuvamile sithatha indawo engemuva. Phakathi komsebenzi, isikole, nokuzibophezela okungapheli, kungase kuzwakale sengathi sonke siphila ngamabhamuza ahlukene. Ngike ngaba khona, futhi ngiyawazi umzabalazo. Ufuna ukuxhumana nabantu obathandayo, kodwa ukuthola indawo ekahle yokukhuthaza lezo zikhathi kungaba inselele. Faka ubhavu oshisayo. Yebo, ungizwe kahle! Lokhu akukhona nje ukuphumula; imayelana nokwakha ubuhlobo bomndeni obuqinile. Ake ngihlanganyele ukuthi ubhavu oshisayo ungaguqula kanjani amandla omndeni wakho. Ukudala Umkhathi Okhululekile Zibone ngeso lengqondo ufika ekhaya ngemva kosuku olude. Esikhundleni sokugxumela emisebenzini yasekhaya noma esikhathini sesikrini, isithombe singena kubhavu oshisayo, obhibhayo. Amanzi apholile ancibilikisa ukucindezeleka, futhi kungazelelwe, wonke umuntu uzizwa ekhululekile. Izingxoxo zigeleza ngokukhululeka, uhleko lugcwala umoya, futhi lezo zinkathazo zansuku zonke zibonakala ziphela. Isikhathi Sekhwalithi Sindawonye Amashubhu ashisayo ahlinzeka ngendawo ekahle yokuhlangana komndeni kwekhwalithi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wabelana ngezindaba, udlala imidlalo, noma ujabulela nje ukuba ndawonye, isipiliyoni sibaluleke kakhulu. Ngikhumbula ngobunye ubusuku lapho mina nomndeni wami sichitha amahora amaningi kubhavu oshisayo, sixoxa ngezinkumbulo namaphupho esiwathandayo. Bekuwubusuku obugcwele ukuxhumana esisakhuluma ngakho nanamuhla. Ukukhuthaza Ukusebenzisana Kwethimba Ukusebenzisa ubhavu oshisayo kungafundisa izifundo ezibalulekile ekusebenzeni njengeqembu. Kusukela ekuhlanzeni nasekunakekeleni ubhavu kuya ekuhleleni ubusuku be-spa bomndeni, wonke umuntu angangena. Lokhu akugcini nje ngokukhuthaza umuzwa wokuzibophezela kodwa futhi kukhuthaza ukubambisana. Kuyindlela ejabulisayo yokusebenzisana ukuze ufinyelele umgomo ofanayo—ukudala ukuzizwisa komndeni okujabulisayo. Ukwenza Izinkumbulo Ezihlala Njalo Izikhathi ezichithwa kubhavu oshisayo ziba izinkumbulo ezithandekayo. Ngivame ukubheka emuva ngalobo busuku obugcwele ukuhleka nemfudumalo. Yilezi zigigaba eziqinisa izibopho zethu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umgubho wosuku lokuzalwa noma uhambo olulula lwempelasonto, ubhavu oshisayo usebenza njengengemuva lezikhathi zomndeni ezingenakulibaleka. Isiphetho Uma ubheke ukuqinisa izibopho zomndeni wakho, cabanga ukutshala kubhavu oshisayo. Akukona nje ukunethezeka; yithuba lokuxhuma kabusha, uphumule, futhi udale izinkumbulo ezihlala njalo ndawonye. Ngakho-ke, kungani ungagxumi? Umndeni wakho uzokubonga ngakho! Xhumana nathi namuhla ukuze ufunde okwengeziwe Jason Chan: info@halospas.com/WhatsApp ++8618829916021.
